may 18th-24th: I fell into a burning ring of fire

Yep, still reading the Inferno. And while the mutual dates have continued, I haven’t fallen in love yet.

There were three dates this week. The first was with Lauren on Thursday night. She’s from Arizona, served a mission in Montana/Wyoming, and wants to be a nurse. She came over to my house and we sat at the kitchen table and painted watercolors while conversing. It was a fun (and simple) date, and I then walked her home.

Saturday, I went out with Maddie. Quick background: Last week, Porter is good friends with her younger brother. They were all on a camp-out together and Porter thought he would get along well. All of this was happening unbeknownst to me though. I received a text from Maddie introducing herself and then a few minutes later one from Porter quite funny. I texted more with Maddie throughout the week than any one before, and I was quite excited to go out on this blind date. I called her and we marked a picnic for Saturday at Draper City Park. My friends Kimball and Aubrey met us there, and we played bocce ball and corn hole and ate some pasta and watermelon. Maddie is a student at UVU, studying business and currently works for the church in the Seminaries and Institute department. She served her mission in Atlanta.

And the third date was on Sunday. This one was with Fernanda, from Petropolis, RJ, Brazil. She is a student at BYU and LOVES to paint, so we also did watercolors. I picked up a couple of pointers from her and had another good time.

More than anything, I wanted to be more social this week and simply go on some dates. Mission accomplished. For those who may be wondering, I always like to note where people are from, what they are studying, and where (if applicable) they served their mission. I know that this doesn’t even begin to define who they are and the myriad assortment of talents and interests that they have. Yet, I am amazed at all the wonderful people I am constantly meeting and am blown away by how amazingly different people are, and that is in some very small way indicated by those three facts. The world is a lot bigger than I can imagine, and it’s filled with talented, hard-working kind souls who truly care about others and intend to leave the planet better than they encountered it.

Eating healthy, working out. The gym is open Monday-Friday, and then they close over the weekend for “deep cleans.” I’ve been going with David, and we made it all 5 days this week. My days have fallen in to an easy routine of waking up, having breakfast and free time until 8 am, then reading scriptures and studying until 10 am. At that point, I meet up with David in the gym and we work out for just over an hour, then I go running, and return home to shower. Lunch is at 12, and I try to be in the BYU Library at 1 to start studying.

The reality is, this is the most time I have put into working out and focusing on eating healthy, and I think I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been in.

Another benefit of quitting my job is that I’ve had time to ponder, meditate, and just think creatively. And yes, there are now 4 small-business ideas that I want to try. I’ve been working with my new friend Klaus, on golf tours in Brazil. He is from Vienna originally, but married a Brazilian, and has lived there for 18 years now. he leads tours, both for Brazilians wanting to go overseas to Europe, and for Germans to Brasil. I am partnering with him to try and get the american market. I think the key will be the corporate travelers who have a day or two free while they are there on business.

Porter came over Sunday and this is what we had for lunch. I kind of want to do a food blog, and so I’ve been working on presentation.

We played Scrabble again, and this time I barely emerged victorious after a furious comeback and lots of luck. The last letter I drew was the blank which allowed me to both take advantage of a triple word score and go out first.

The other notable event of the week was “The Re-Match.” I partnered up with Kimball and we faced off against c-i-l Mike and Bowen at Talon’s Cove Golf Course. We tried and we failed again. Bowen and Mike won the first two holes and we couldn’t ever catch up. When they won the 8th, it was officially over. These 2×2 matches have been a lot of fun, and I want one more shot at beating Bowen, so round 3 will be soon.

I’ve really been struggling this week to decide if I even want to go to BYU Law School, or if UConn is the right place for me. I’ve compiled a list of pros/cons to help me weigh the factors. It’s a tough call. In the midst of this, I am more  thankful than ever to know that God has a plan for each and every one of us. I know if we try and live worthy of the Spirit, He will guide our footsteps and all will be well. 2 Nephi 32:3

“Angels speak by the power of the Holy Ghost; wherefore, they speak the words of Christ. Wherefore, I said unto you, feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do.”

What struck me reading this is that it is not enough to read good books. It is not enough to read the scriptures. We must be buried in the actual words of Christ.

One thought on “may 18th-24th: I fell into a burning ring of fire”

  1. Hi Hunter,

    Sounds like you had a busy and fun week. Hmmm–three girls three dates. Just enjoy each one. Your falling in love with someone will happen–it isn’t something that you can say–“I am going to fall in love tonight”. I doubt it happens this way, but sometimes you will meet someone who just has a certain spark that really ignites you. You will eventually feel that. In the meantime, just enjoy being with the girls, have fun, and be yourself.

    Your luncheon plate looked great! I had blackened salmon for dinner tonight but they put caraway seeds on it–that I didn’t care for so scraped them off. I saved what I couldn’t eat and will put it into a salad for lunch tomorrow. I have another small piece of salmon in the fridge that I will add to it.

    I wanted broccoli to go with it and ended up with peas that I didn’t order. The reasoning was–it was the only other green vegetable because we ran out of broccoli. Well, I could have ordered carrots instead. I had a nice salad with romaine lettuce, mandarin oranges and slivered almonds and used a zinfandel dressing. I also ordered wild mushroom soup that I will also have for lunch tomorrow.

    Dinner tomorrow night is a lobster roll, so I am going to order that. Yum.

    My garden is all planted as of last Saturday–tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers, basil, zucchini, summer squash and cucumbers. Now I just want them to grow. In another bed, I planted sunflower seeds and cleome seeds. Well, the landscapers were filling some beds that needed top soil and lo and behold, they tossed some in my sunflower bed. I hope they are strong enough to poke through the soil that was there plus the top soil. We’ll see. If not, I’ll buy some plants to put in that bed.

    Such a great time with everyone planting and watching things grow. I love it. Can’t wait for my first tomato, but that will be either the end of June or beginning of July. Love fresh garden tomatoes.

    Enjoy your weekend. Stay well and safe.

    Love, Aunt Shirley

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